Best Practices for Working with Distressed Students

Speak with the individual privately
Let them know you are concerned and willing to help
Listen carefully and compassionately; then, explore options
- Ask the student if there is a cultural practice that may be helpful to incorporate such as smudging, prayer, contacting a close friend, elder or family member for additional support.
Keep healthy boundaries and limits
Identify resources and make referrals (e.g., Morningstar Counseling, Student Support Services, Suicide and Crisis Hotline (988), Trevor Project (866-488-7386)).

Possible Signs of Distress

Marked change in performance or behavior
Excessive absence or tardiness
Decreased motivation/concentration
Increased irritability or anxiety
Exaggerated emotional response that is inappropriate to the situation
Increased isolation or sadness
Hyperactivity or very rapid speech
Marked change in personal hygiene, including weight loss or gain
Excessive confusion
Bizarre or erratic behavior
References to suicide (e.g., feelings of helplessness or hopelessness)
References to homicide or assault

If a Student Tells You of a Sexual Assault

Please be aware of any institutional and state requirements regarding mandated reporting.

Stay calm and listen. Create an environment where the student can talk and share.
Offer your support. Let the student know that they are not to blame for what happened.
Let them know that you are available to support them.
Empower the student by telling them they have a right to be safe and free from violence.
Be honest and up front about reporting the abuse or getting support.
Help them find resources to talk with individuals who are trained on these topics:
- Morningstar Counseling: 402-327-9711.
Contact any of the following for immediate assistance:
- Title IX Coordinator: Trishia Wegner (402) 878-2380 ext. 103 / Regular business hours, M-F.
- Strong Hearts Helpline 1-844-7NATIVE
- Winnebago Domestic Violence Program 402-922-3850
- National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673 (24 hours/7 days a week)
- National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (24 hours/7 days a week)
- Little Priest Tribal College Campus Security 402-878-2380 ext. 104

If you are off-campus and experiencing an emergency situation, you can call local police (see below) or by dialing 911.

Campus Security: 402-878-2380 ext. 104 or 911
South Sioux City (NE) Police Department: 402-494-7512
Thurston County Sheriff’s Office: 402-385-3018
UmoⁿhoⁿNation Police Department: 402-837-5906
Walthill Police Department: 402-846-5685
Winnebago Police Department: 402-878-2245

Resource Guide for Student and Employees on Sexual Misconduct Campus Policies Procedures and Victim Services

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